5 signs of a toxic friend

- She talks about everyone- Her neighbor is stupid. Your cousins are fat. Her coworkers are nosey, and did you hear that Joan is getting a divorce because her husband wants to be with a man? Here’s a clue, if your friend gossips about everyone don’t think for one moment that she isn’t gossiping about you.


- Her world is always worse than yours- Drama, drama, drama doesn’t even begin to describe toxic friends life. You mention how you were late to an important meeting because you forgot to fill up the tank, and you had to stop and get gas. Toxic friend tells you, “That’s nothing. This one time I was late to work because my boyfriend took my car to go somewhere and he didn’t come back on time and I had to report it stolen because I forgot that he still had the car…..” you get the point. Whatever you say is “nothing” because her life is always so much worse.


- Your positives are her negatives –You just got a promotion. Toxic friend doesn’t congratulate you; instead she points out how you’ll have to work more and you probably didn’t get that much of a raise. She also mentions how others at work will probably hate you because you are now their boss.


- Her motto is “It’s not an insult…I love you.” -You are eating a cheeseburger and she calls you a cow. She tells you your new furniture looks like she woke up after eating too much Chinese food. However she tells you not to worry as she is just joking with you because she loves you.


- Your other friends refuse to be around her - they also question why you are her friend. While it’s true that sometimes our best friends can pre-judge people; the fact still remains that those outside of a situation can see it more clearly than those who are standing right in the middle of it.

YOU THINK THEIR YOUR FRIENDS?...THINK AGAIN!!!

my life after dark

This is my life after dark every week and sometimes 3 nights in a row in a week since last year Dec. till the last 2 nights before my vacation in the Phillipines last March. Four months of night life every week made me more crazy hehehe! Corona, Jose Cuervo Special, Adios, Jose Cuervo Patron--my favorite!, Sex on the beach, Vodka redbull, and more free coronas & shots of liquors from those so called generous guys! hehehe! And a non-stop dancing all night on top of the stage while wearing mini skirt just to show-off my moves with it and seeing those guys peeping at me...hehehe! naughty girl! Yup, i miss it so bad for the reason that i don't go out that much anymore because of my bestbud who's always at work and my bf who always tells me "HON,BEHAVE KA DUN! YOKO MAKIKIPAGSAYAW KA SA MGA LALAKI LALO NA MAGPAPAHIPO KUNG SAAN SAAN HA!!!" thats what he says everytime i go out! funny how i follow him eventhough he's in pinas... oh well, im a good girl now! hehehe!

PB BAR & GRILL @ CLUB TREMORS THIS COMING THURSDAY NIGHT! THE DIVAS (me & bhabez) WILL BE THERE! SEE YAH!

ART DECO

located @ 731 Fifth Ave. San Diego
Chic 1930's Art Deco club and restaurant showcases old school charm to a thong of 20-somethings.

OLE' MADRID

Located @ 751 Fifth Ave. San Diego
Spanish fare is served with a flare at this Gaslamp hotspot.

PB BAR & GRILL

Located @ 860 Garnette Ave. San Diego, California
(1 block from the beach)
Safely walking the lines between a frat boy's dream and a food enthusiast's paradise.

BELO

Located @ 919 Fourth Ave. Ste.100 San Diego
Gaslamps's glitzy new dance club combines retro/moderen decor with a sophisticated menu and internationally acclaimed DJs.

quarter-life crisis

...it is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then you got scared because you barely know where you are right now. You started realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones.What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty,mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you. You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to start from the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next you're confident. You laugh and cry with the greatest forces of your life.You feel alone, scared and confused. Suddenly, changes is the enemy, and you try to cling to your past, but soon you realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you love could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talking with your friends about the same topics because you can't seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself......and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender...What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

dating vs. marriage

When you are dating..... Farting is never an issue.
When you are married ....You make sure there's nothing flammable near your husband at all times.


When you are dating..... He takes you out to have a good time.
When you are married ....He brings home a 6 pack, and says "What are you going to drink?"


When you are dating..... He holds your hand in public.
When you are married ....He flicks your ear in public.


When you are dating..... A Single bed for 2 isn't THAT bad.
When you are married ....A King size bed feels like an army cot.

It's school time!

August 20th, this is the day were Matthews' 1st time at school. Alot of parents are trying to put their kids at an early age but for me i decided to put him in preschool at his certain age at 4. Morning at 11am, i started preparing him for school and he was so excited. 11:45am the time for his school...his excitement triggered his adrenaline to go hyper. I stayed with him like the other parents does. I watch him pay attention to his teacher & observing him while he interacts with his classmates. At 12 noon the bell rang and its time to line up for lunch, on the way to cafeteria i was holding his hand while walking. Cafeteria food was not at his interest bcoz its burrito day for lunch, so he just drank his milk and waited for the others to finish their meal. Lunch time is done and its time to go back to their classroom. On the way there, i said my bye bye to him coz its time for me to go and leave him on his own with his teacher. A kiss, a goodbye hug and lots of love was left for him. as i leave him there a teardrop almost fell from my eyes...a tear of missing him already and a thought of my son is growing up so fast and sooner i'll be seeing him going to school on his own. Now, i realized that we are not growing younger anymore and this special moment of my life with my son is such a wonderful experience. so i may say it's PRICELESS!